THIS MADE ME START HYPERVENTILATING which is really ironic
that was fucking terrifying
your tension has been exterminated
Some friends and I have had a guy spamming us for MONTHS now, sending mindless hate. He contacts us through ASK FM (where we have mostly blocked him), through fake twitter accounts (sometimes mimicking our other friends) and Tumblr. This is after nearly a year of sending lovely or crude sexual messages. And it’s fucked up. Thankfully, my friends and I are strong. We don’t care. Your words don’t hurt us because we know it’s not true, and if ones do hit close to home it’s easy for us to remind ourselves that you’re not worth our thoughts or time.
My concerns aren’t with us. It’s with you, or the people you might be targeting outside of myself, Reiana, Nadine, Kerstin and Matt. Because not everyone is as strong and self-assured as we are. Your words could make a huge negative impact on somebody’s life. This is bullying. It is harassment. It is abuse. Don’t think you’re affecting us, because you’re not. But I worry for the people who might be affected by your words. People who might stop eating because you’re calling them fat, might self-harm because you’ve called them worthless pieces of shit, people who might break down when you bring up personal issues that you know affect them.
We’re actually pretty sure we know who you are, too. We know your Tumblr (which I won’t share because that would just be negative retaliation) and normal twitter. Your name is Mike. And we would like you to stop, please. If not to us, but to others you might be messaging.
Try to find something positive to do with your time. Take up a hobby, build closer friendships, or focus on studies. Whatever you want. But harnessing so much negative energy just isn’t any good for you or anybody around you.
I don’t really have a conclusion, am just sick of waking up to empty threats or insults. It doesn’t phase me because I have amazing friends and a damn great life and a brilliant positive outlook on most things; but this doesn’t mean it won’t hurt someone else. Just have a think, please.
You should also probably think about how you phrase your abuse, some might consider it flattery.
You know, personally, I like hearing about Fiona’s sex life. It’s great fun.
It’s hilarious how much of a hypocrite this kid is being. Thank you for posting this, Fi. Somehow, between every “you whore” and “xoxo” I always seem to forget this guy even exists.
Take note - yes, we do know who you are. But have we ever taken advantage of that? Nope. We don’t care. Honestly, I just want you rid of all the anger you have inside you. Psychologically, that can’t be fixed by being agressive, which is how you’ve been. Agression feeds agression. Take some time to be at peace with yourself. Just let it go, and move on with your life. Focus on yourself and being happier.
SO THAT’S HOW THEY DO IT
A comic about my sleeping process
Oh shit son.
I just had a moment.
it’s Augustus and Hazel.
Watching them read together was just…just so wonderful. One of the strangest and most rewarding moments of my professional life.
high tide and low tide in great britain. photographs by michael marten
this is so cool im surprised st michaels mount isnt there
it makes me so uncomfortable when people swear at their parents like i would get straight up beaten if i told my mom to shut the fuck up